Stop Talking and Create Something you Love

Don’t think it just do it

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If you continuously work hard at something you’ll get there one day.

However, if you only think of doing something every day but not going to do it you’ll stay where you are.

Most people will never get out of where they are. Why?

Because they have no courage, belief or strength to do something out of their comfort zone.

I have friends whom for years have been saying my dream is to do singing and they do none of that. The other good one is I want to be a writer but wrote nothing in months or even years. Some say I have a great business ideas but never actually do anything with it.

There’s a lot of talk and little action.

With this type of behaviour no one will get anywhere. It will always just be talk no action. Do you know of anyone who got somewhere just by talking? Even doing a talk show you need to do an action! It’s not enough to just do talking. It’s not even enough to just pray. You’ve got to do something about what you want not just wish it.

I cannot say I want to write a book and pray for it. I have to write it. I have to take action. I have to work for it. I have to trust in the process and keep doing it. Someone once said ideas are cheap! You’ve got to do the work otherwise you are just that person who talks about ideas. I didn’t get into a University by wishing it. I had to write an essay and had an interview.

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It’s not enough just praying and saying ‘God will guide me!’ This is the biggest rubbish I’ve ever heard. You’ve got to do the work. You’ve got to work for whatever you wish. It’s great to have dreams and aspirations but you’ve got to do something to move towards it. You might have some luck along the way.

However, luck comes to those who work hard.

Whom have been writing for years with no real success and three years later ‘success struck’. Success doesn’t strike on someone wishing for things to happen. I cannot expect to learn a language without learning it, can I? Luck will not ‘strike’ me when I try to speak to people in another language. It will only ‘strike’ me when I’ve studied long and hard enough.

I cannot sit on the sofa and wish to have a slim body while eating cakes. Praying to God will not help me and certainly will not guide me! The only way I’ll have a slim body is when I do the exercise every single day. I can then pray to help me do this every single day.

People have to work for everything they want in life.

I had this training from my childhood. My mother wold always tell me if you want to get something you’ve got be good at maths for a year. It was hard work. I would always get what I wanted but I had to work for every single thing. I wanted something there will always be a condition to it.

All my life I’ve known hard work. Maybe that’s why I go crazy when I hear people talk of things and then say ‘God will guide me!’ It’s such a nonsense.

Here are a few tips to get what you want but you have to put in the hard work!

  1. Do it every day
  2. Stick to it for at least 6 months maybe a few years
  3. Don’t listen to negativity
  4. Focus on where you are going
  5. Know the finish line with the prize waiting for you

Here you have it.

I hope you to achieve everything you dream of. I hope you to have everything you wish! You’ll get it through hard work because nothing good come out of speed! Rome wasn’t build in a day! Nor will your ‘empire’ take time, enjoy the journey and you’ll get there. After all once you get to the finish line it’s the journey that counts!

Love and Light!

I am a writer who learned to code! I write about personal experiences within a humanist and global context. Find me on Twitter & Instagram @erikachaudhary

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